Random urge to write!

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Every day we find hundreds of people around us.
Looking different, walking different, speaking different and behaving completely different. No two people are precisely analogous.

Some people treat their neighbours as monsters, Folks who kill others, who blame unnecessarily, who are addicted to drugs, who harras others, who slam kids, who torture their wives, who torture their husbands, who kill their own family, who steal things, who rape others and who always hate others. Who's always irritated, who overthinks a lot, who constantly overreacts, who is unnecessarily rude. And who is even afraid to lose someone?

Also, some people treat everyone as their own family, respect everyone, who is kind at heart, who's against all society's so-called evil aspects. Few people can't even stand the thought of something terrible happening even to a stranger. 

But as humans, we are busy differentiating people in numerous aspects but forget the fact that each and everyone in this whole wide world is human just like us. There are both good and bad in every one of us.
A person doing something evil, useless or undesirable is not entirely about that particular person.

It's about the culture they live in, it's about the surroundings, it's about their parents, it's about their friends, it's about everything that encircles them. Even a small element plays a major role in nurturing a kid into an adult. And all the trauma or situations a person faces as a kid turns them out into an adult who they are today with a bit of self-will.

So here we are, where we judge others so easily. We can't stand the thought of someone who doesn't reach our expectations.

If each and everyone in this world treats themselves and shapes themselves, how they want others to be. There would be a lot of change, a change that we have always wanted. 

I strongly believe in these words below! 
Keep your thoughts positive, because your thoughts become your words.
Keep your words positive, because your words become your actions.
Keep your actions positive, because your actions become your habit.
Keep your habits positive, because your habits become your values.
Keep your values positive, because your values become your destiny.

If everyone follows this strictly, we can go back to a peaceful life. Where we find no murders, no rapes, no harassment, no judgements, no cruelty. We find a beautiful world filled with humanity and peace. 

And hoping for this in this world is like searching for humans with wings, fishes that can survive on land, snakes that can fly and birds that can crawl.

Nonetheless, a thousand steps in a journey start with a single step. And that single step commences with mine! 

- Sravani 

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